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	Relationship & Dating Concerns :: select another category We're having sex - but were so afraid! What Do The “Bases” Stand For? Like In “How Far Have You Gotten?” I feel like I’m ready, but I'm just scared. Should I break off our relationship - or continue to be friends? My boyfriend has been pressuring me. Should I move on? This girl started liking me, but I'm shy. What should I say? My girlfriend and I just broke up last night because she told me she kissed some guy she just met last week. Well I really love this guy I met on the internet, we talk every day on the phone. I just met this guy and he says he loves me. I say it back, but I really don't. I have a friend and we are basically really good friends and I like her boyfriend and whenever she is not around we flirt like crazy. What should I do? I'm 14 and I'm dating a guy that is 25. we have been dating for 3 months, and I love him so much. My parents don't really like him. What would be the best thing to do in this situation? How do I know I am ready to lose my virginity? I have been with my b-friend for 3months, we have talked about it and its something we both want. What are me and my boyfriend supposed to do when we are bored? And not sexually either. My best friend was just down here today and he ask me to rub his feet for him, so I did!! Then he said can I rub your back and I let him. Well I’m in a relationship with this guy and his friend's are telling me he's not being true to me but in some ways I think they are just saying that. Well I’ve liked this boy for over a year now but I don’t know if he feels the same about me? He always stares at me and he always turns up at the places where I am. I asked him what he thinks about me and he said he thinks I’m nice but doesn’t like me as a girlfriend. Please help me! I’m totally confused! How do I get with her? I like this girl but she has a boyfriend what do you suggest I do? I want to know if he is starting to realize were meant for each other? Is he hiding his feelings? This boy asked me to have sex with him, I really truly wanted to, but I said no because he wanted to have it in the woods. What are some sure signs that you're going to end up having sex? My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and he has put me through a lot. My friends tell me things but I don’t know if I should believe them! I've always believed that I wanted to wait until I am married to have sex. I like a guy that is 18 and I am 15 years old. We have fun together. Is that too much of an age difference? I’m so depressed. I knew that he cheated on me a few times but he never admits it. I'm thirteen and I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost two years and we still haven't even made out yet. How do I make my move? There is a guy in my school I like very much and he is very popular. There is this girl I like and I am pretty sure she knows it. I have classes with her and we talk a lot and I really care for her. I confessed that I had kissed another girl. Ever since then we talk now and again, and she tells me that she loves me but cant go out with me. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for more than 2 months now. My question is why she always wants to do stuff in groups? Would it be alright if I go out with my cousin? I have never kissed a guy before and I need to know how to. I know it sounds silly but I’m kind of scared that I might do it wrong or something you know? I asked this guy out but he said no. I am really depressed about it and I want get over it but I am going to ask him why he said no, should I lay off or should I talk about it with him? Should I deny myself what I really want and just stick with my girlfriend who I like a lot and really like having sex with despite the fact I could have tons of hot girls and enjoy having sex with them? I'm 17 years old and I have never done anything more than make out with a guy. My boyfriend now wants to "move up to the next step." My girlfriend and I, do all kind of sexual things (oral, masturbation etc) except from vaginal sex. How can I get her to do it with me? We have only been going out for a week and I think it is too early .. do you think I should or should not? How do I know if he is the right one for me? How do I find out if the person I love really loves me? Has the same feelings as I do for him? How do I know that he is the right person for me? I caught my boyfriend with another guy! What should I do? I like this girl but I'm shy! What should I do? There's this guy I like, and I think he likes me too! How do I approach him? We are Christians - what are our limits as far as sex? How can I tell my boyfriend that I don’t want to have sex anymore? I tried before at the end. We both agreed that we were still going to do it, but I don’t want to. How do I tell my parents I'm having sex? I tell my boyfriend to stop, but he doesn't. What is wrong with him? This guy I broke up with keeps coming to my house and harassing me. What should I do? I can't stop looking at other guys when I'm with my boyfriend! This guy I like is turned off by my smoking. How can I quit? Got involved with this person and now I don't like the things I'm doing. I'm 18. She's 16. Does the age difference make our relationship wrong? I'm too shy to tell her how I feel of ask her how she feels. How do I let her know I love her without her thinking all I want is sex? My boyfriend says he needs some before the summer. If I do it, will he lose respect for me? I really like two guys, but can't be with both. What should I do? I want to forgive him and take him back. My friends and my family said I'm crazy to take him back. I knew my best friend for 10 yrs. And I really like him. I was just wondering how can I tell if he really likes me for SURE? What’s the point of having a long term teenage relationship if its not going to go somewhere into the further away future? I want to have oral sex, but I'm Christian. What should I do? I am 18 and my parents want to put a restraining order against my boyfriend. Met this girl on the net and she was one way - in person, she's another way. What is a good age to have sex? What should you do if someone dumps you because you didn't have sex with them? My parents don't like me to hang around or even talk to black guys... If I really like him and I am ready, should I have sex with him? I recently had sex with a boy that is not my official boyfriend - we just both really like each other and we live too far apart to have a proper relationship. Me and my boyfriend just broke up because of a stupid misunderstanding. Me and my boyfriend are coming up for our 1 year anniversary, and I want to have sex with him for the first time. What can I do to get her back? Do you think that I can get over my feelings for him somehow and have a purely platonic relationship with him? We had such a great relationship! But then he ended it. Why?? My religion says I can't date anyone who is not the same as me. But I've met someone... We have discussed setting clear limits on how far we want to go physically, but we keep ending up in situations where we're tempted (sorely tempted) to break those limits. I told her I had feelings for her, but she didn't feel the same way. Should I keep pursuing her? Me and my boyfriend had been dating for one year and I don't know if he really loves me for who I am or he loves me just for needing sex. I have a friend that I like but who has a boyfriend. How do I let her know? Every time he touches my chest, I get physically sick. My friend and I like the same girl. He's been turned down twice. Should I ask her out? My boyfriend wants me and a girlfriend of mine to fulfill his fantasy. My Mom walked in on me and my boyfriend. Didn't she invade my privacy? I'm feeling very insecure about my relationship with my boyfriend, but I know it's not his fault. What should I do? My ex-boyfriend won't leave me and my new boyfriend alone! What should I do? He hasn't called me or talked to me for 7 days. What do you think is going on? He keeps asking me if he can go down on me, but I’m afraid to let him do it because I’m afraid that it might lead to sexual intercourse, which I’m not ready for right now. How do I ask out a girl without using a cheesy pickup line? He says that I am the first he has had sex with. Should I believe him? I have a girlfriend, but we are slowly drifting apart and nowhere near as close as we used to be. My best friend's girlfriend is interested in me, and I am in her, and a night ago we ended up making out the front of my house. My girlfriend is very touchy with her friends but not me! I was wondering what I should do to be sure that she has fun/it feels great for her? I'm in love with a guy I met online and he wants to meet! I want to marry this guy. Should I get pregnant? My boyfriend told me how could I love him and not have sex with him. My boyfriend started using drugs. How can I help him get out of it? He's 7 years older than me and he keeps telling me he loves me! My best friend said he had a dream about the girl that I want to be with - should I trust him? How can I get my father to accept the fact that I date, that I like being with guys and nothings happening that I don't want to happen? I’m 14 years old and my boyfriend wants to have sex. Well I’m not that comfortable with it. I am afraid to have sex with my boyfriend. My biggest fear is getting pregnant. I can't choose between two guys! When I told him I loved him too, he told me to prove it and a few days later he told me how I could prove it. My ex b/f keeps telling guys interested in me really bad rumors which aren't true. We met, I fell in love, and then moved away. She "moved on" but I'm still in love... This guy wants me to have sex with him, but when I say no, he's mean to me. How do I make a relationship work? My parents are so racist! Am I too young to meet the guy I'm supposed to be with forever? Me and this guy were touching last night and now he doesn't want to go any further. Is fooling around with a guy considered bad or dirty if the two of you are not a couple? My ex-boyfriend keeps spreading nasty rumors about me at school. He hardly ever showed his feelings. Should I try to mend this... I have a boyfriend who is 17 also and I am totally ready to have sex. Am I ready? My boyfriend says he doesn't trust me and now ignores me. My boyfriend ignores me and doesn't communicate with me... I'm 17 and I've been told by many girls that I'm attractive but I've never had a girlfriend! I don't want the things that my boyfriend and I do to lead to intercourse. I cheated on my boyfriend and now I want him back. Don't I deserve another chance? We were caught having sex and his parents are mad and don't want to listen. How can I stop my boyfriend from being jealous? My boyfriend and best friend flirt like crazy! This upsets me! I like him, but he says he doesn't have the time to date... I like this guy. How do I ask him out?? My boyfriend gets mood swings and becomes angry. What should I do? He wants to have sex with me, but doesn't want to ask me out. What should I do? Me and my boyfriend argue all the time. How can we stop? Is this a sign of a bad relationship? I slapped my girlfriend. I apologized, but her friends are telling her to leave me. My boyfriend is going through a lot, and doesn't seem to be as affectionate. I love him but he is always too busy for me. She dumped me! How do I deal with these emotions? I want to have sex, but I'm scared. Should I? My friend and I think this guy might be having wet dreams about me. I went too far with this guy I met and now he wants to see me again. Do you think he just wants sex? We gone out, and he treats me well, but I don't really have feelings for him. In love, but he moved away. How do I get over this? She cheated on me and I gave her a second chance, but I am still in pain, and our relationship is different. How do I know if this guy is flirting with me? Is it okay to ask a guy out? I love him but I don't enjoy having sex with him. Is this normal? A good friend of mine kissed me but the problem is he has a girlfriend. My girlfriend has temper tantrums. What should I do? I'm afraid to ask this girl out. And if I do should I kiss her on the first date? How long do relationships usually last at age 15? I can't get a girlfriend! Help! My boyfriend tried to feel me up and now he's upset. A 28 year-old may have got me pregnant. What could happen to him? What if you had sex with a guy, who told his sister, who then told your school. What do you do after all the guys start asking you out because of that? I’m 15 and I started dating this guy but I had to break up with him because my mom said I wasn’t old enough to date. My mom drives my crazy! I’m really worried about my girl friend. She is self harming herself (cutting her arm with a blade). I've been in a relationship for about 4 months now. But however, she is not a virgin, I am. I wanted to go out with a girl that was a virgin. My girlfriend told me that we started off too fast and it was her fault, but she had been molested as a child, and just broke up with me. How do I approach a girl who knows how I feel about her, but is dating another boy? I have got the holding hands down but my question is how do I know when she wants me to kiss her? I'm 14 and I lost my virginity when I was 13. He told me he loved me and everything but the next day he broke up with me. Does he really love me? My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 weeks now and we like to get into each others fantasies which always includes sex. I broke up with a guy who now makes me feel miserable everytime I see him and I feel guilty now for breaking up with him. He's popular, I'm not, and his friends don't like me, and now he's blowing me off. If my boyfriend what's to have sex and he asks me, what should I say to him? He’s going around our school calling me a Skanky @#% *$(%@ and also a slut. What should I do about it? How do I get a guy to look at me sexually, when we are good friends? Are there techniques of flirting? Is it wrong that I am going out with a guy that already has a daughter but is very far away from her. Is it normal to not wanna be bothered with boys? My boyfriend acts like he loves me and it truly feels like he does, but he won’t say it. He tells me that I flirt too much, I'm not a player , I just talk to a lot of different guys whom are just friends. When my boyfriend put his friends before me is that bad? When he doesn't call for a couple of weeks what does it mean? I'm the first guy to do anything physical with her so she is shy about all of this. How would I know if my boyfriend has had sex with somebody else? And what does it mean if he comes too quick or takes a long time to come? He makes me feel guilty and bad about myself so I broke up with him. But now I'm wondering if I should have. I broke up with her and now I miss her. Should I try and get her back? My boyfriend is severely depressed and never tells me he loves me. What can I do to help? I have a boyfriend who is really sweet but he hardly talks to me at school, I see him at lunch all the time and he still doesn't speak, he only look at me funny and smile. oh yeah he barely says a word to me at church too. I have a boyfriend but I met another boy that is everything that I've always wanted. He converses with other girls on the phone because we both agreed that we could have friends. So yesterday he found some numbers in my pocket and had an attitude. MY BOYFRIEND WANTS SEX AND HE IS 14. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I DONT THINK I WANT TO YET? The problem is, A told me that he got a girlfriend but B told me that he does not have a girlfriend and he likes me. My so-called friend of 2 years has been found guilty of trying to get with my man. So what should I do? It seems that all my boyfriends were perfect for that time being, but when I got to know them more, I tended to dislike them even more, or they do something to hurt me. I love him, but I'm going away to college and will be busy with studies. How can I fit him in? I like this girl and I think she LIKED me but it seems like she doesn’t as much any more and that she’s kind of mad at me but I know I didn’t do anything wrong. I have a lovely great amazing girlfriend, but her parents are too strict and we can’t be alone. My boyfriend is starting to go out with his friends and is now suddenly a different person. I love her, she loves me, but she has a boyfriend and they've been going out for 6 months, and she loves him, but he doesn’t love her. What should I do? I still think I'm in love with this guy who my parents hate. I'm really becoming afraid of my ex-boyfriend. What should I do? I am deep in love with my ex from 4 yrs and he wants me leave my current boyfriend for him, but I don't know. What should I do? There is this girl at my school who is the most wonderful girl in the whole world, and I really do love her, but she doesn't like me more than a friend. I freeze up whenever someone I am attracted to talks to me. Also, I need some quick comebacks to people who make remarks about me! I really like him a lot and never really have completely gotten over him. How do I get him back? I'm 13, he's 18. Is it against the law for us to date? To have sex? I've liked this guy for 3 years, but he is VERY shy with me. I am 20. She is 16. Her Father hates me and says he is going to get a restraining order. Can he do that? One of my b/f closest friends died while they were hunting and I feel weird because he won't talk and I don't know what to say to make him feel better. He doesn't call me as much. Should I call him? What do I say? It is always bros before hoes. I know that, but most of the time when a situation comes up that forces me to decide between my girlfriend or buddies, I'll stick with my girlfriend. We kiss and hug, but he's starting to touch me in places I don't want to be touched. I love him but don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I were really good friends, but now that we broke up, he is really mean to me. Why is he doing this? My girlfriend and I both want to have sex. However, I am worried that having sex will lead to a commitment that I am not ready for. What should I do? I've had 6 boyfriends in 6 months and slept with 3 of them, almost a fourth, and I feel dirty. What can I do so I don't feel this way? I met at a party and then told him that we could be friends so that he would stop what he was doing. Now, I really like him, but he likes my best friend. I was 14 and having sex with a guy who was 25. What are some of the reasons why girls get into relationships with older guys? I just need to know because I never hear about it. I want to know why I did it. If I do hear anything, it's that it's wrong, etc. I'm 15 and he's 35, married, with kids, and we flirt like crazy at work. Well, it's becoming more than that... My girl recently confessed that she started having sex at the age of 16, after I forced her to tell me the truth. Should I leave her or stay? What really is making out? My girlfriend's mom walked in on us and now she is forbidden to see me. What should I do? My parents think I'm too young to be in a relationship like this. Who's right? Me or them? I used to suffer from self-harm but have stopped since I've been with my boyfriend. But things have recently changed and I am very sad. What should I do? My boyfriend is severely depressed and he won't take my advice to seek professional help. This is all affecting our relationship. What should I do? My best friend and I like the same guy and I'm getting jealous by what my friend says. I fantasize about her and I can't find the right words or time to tell her how I feel. I had sex with someone that is not my boyfriend and now I don't know if I should tell him what happened. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we have talked about marriage, but I am starting to feel scared about it. My Ex girlfriend and I broke up in September, and it took its toll on me. I started drinking a lot, and it felt like was I just going insane. I am gay and I just met a guy and we have a great relationship, but he says he doesn't want to be gay. There are two boys I like, and who like me, but one gets jealous when I get a boyfriend and one acts as though he wants to be my boyfriend. I was just wondering about being in a relationship when you are from two different cultures. I’m from South Africa with very religious parents and he is from Canada and his parents are also religious and we don’t know how are parents will handle this. Viewing: Relationship & Dating Concerns :: select another category