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How do you know if you are bisexual or just plain lesbian? HELP!
How do I know if I am bi-sexual. Could I have been born that way?
I'm a 15 year-old boy and I masturbate about anywhere from 10-20 times a week. Recently, me and my friend were masturbating (as we have done before), and he dared me to rub his penis. I did and we both ended up "jacking each other off." I'm not gay but I really liked it. Is there anything wrong with us doing this again?
How do you know when you're gay, and how do you tell people?
I like to look at men nude but also like transgendered females. Am I gay?
I have a gay friend who I talk to on the phone and I start saying weird stuff to him like, I want you and let's do it, does it mean I'm gay?
I'm a female and I admire women and get a funny feeling in my stomach around certain women and female teachers. Am I gay?
I'm a guy who is gay, but have girls who are interested in me. How do I let them know?
I don't want to lie to my Mom anymore about being gay. What do I do?
It's tough being gay in the ghetto. I'm so alone and I so want a boyfriend.
Two months a go I’ve become insecure about my sexuality.
I always wondered what it would be like with a girl, so is that a sign I could be bi or a lesbian?
A sleep over turned into a lesbian fling and now I am wondering if I am bi.
My best friend recently told me she was gay and she loved me. Now I think I love her. How do I tell my boyfriend this?
I have deep feelings for my friend and I do not want to ruin our friendship my telling her that I love her.
I’m a fifteen year-old guy and I find myself attracted to both sexes.
I have feelings for this girl, but I don't know if I should share my feelings for her.
I have experimented with both sexes and find that I have gone farther with males.
I'm a lesbian, my parents are religious and hate gay people, and the girl I am in love with isn't lesbian. Should I come out to everyone anyway?
I am a 17 year-old male. And I like having sex with other males. My family does not like it! I am already out of the closet.
I also looked at some questions many young people posted about being gay...
Okay – in 9th grade I started noticing my friend (a boy) in a sexual way I didn’t know what to tell him.
My brain keeps thinking about guys even though I don't want to! Why do I have these thoughts if I am straight and love boobs?
I have a couple of friends back in my old school who are gay and Christian. Does that mean they have sins and are bad Christians?
I’m constantly thinking about it when I meet someone or when I’m around friends family and strangers I really feel uncomfortable in my own skin and I don’t feel at ease because the feeling for both sexes is strong and I cant stop it for both of them.
I’ve recently become attracted to a few of my male friends and started fantasizing over men. I get aroused by these thoughts and am wondering what it means. I’m attracted to girls sexually and emotionally and am utterly confused with what’s happening.
I'm so afraid of coming out and dying and not being able to go to heaven. What should I do???
My dad is a big-wig conservative politician and I am afraid to come out.
How do you know if you’re gay? I fancy girls and want to be with girls, but get turned on by men.
I am 14, gay, and want to know if I should tell the guy that I like that I am interested in him.
I am gay and I regret not coming out as a teen.
I have sexual dreams and masturbate thinking about guys, but notice and am attracted to girls.
The biggest fear of my life is telling anyone that I'm gay.
I am gay and I met a guy and our relationship is great, but he says he doesn't want to be gay.
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